If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her,feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.
How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time. Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life
28 April 2009
21 April 2009
女人的忠告
1)千萬別幻想你可以改換男性的個性，你只能更換的，是他在做嬰兒時的尿布。
2)當你的男朋友離家出走時，你能做些甚麼？把大門關上，永遠別讓他來。
3)要找男人，隨便找一個好了，別分年輕的或老的，他們都是一樣，他們不會成熟。
4)所有男人都是一樣，只是臉不同，方便你認出他是張三李四罷了。
5)不必把男人當傻瓜，他們本身已經是一個傻瓜。
6)猶太人的子孫在沙漠浪蕩了四十年，可想而知，甚至在《聖經》的舊時代，男人已經沒有甚麼方向感。
7)有幽默女人，不是會說笑話的女人。是聽了男人講話時，笑得出的女人。
8)當你的男人上司向你說：「你看來一點也不太忙嘛。」你儘管回答：「那是因為我每辦一件事，一辦就辦妥了。
9)如果男人問你：「你的電話幾號？」
你儘管回答：「要是我告訴你，我就要換新號碼了。」
如果男人問你：「你住在哪？」你儘管回答：「要是我告訴你，我非搬家不可！」
10)如果男人問你：「你想念我嗎？」
你儘管回答：「你不消失，我怎會想念你？」
11)如果男人要求：「把我的早餐拿到上來吃。」
你儘管回答：「那你去廚房睡覺好了。」
12)如果男人問你關於書本的事：「你最喜歡看的是哪一部（簿）？」
你儘管回答：「支票簿。」
13)如果要叫男人做一件事，最好的辦法是向他說：「這件事你做不動，你太老了。」
男人！
1)好男人，多數是醜的。
2)英俊的男人，多數很壞。
3)又英俊又好的男人，多數搞同性戀。
4)又英俊，又好，又很正常的男人，多數已經有老婆。
5)不英俊，但是好的，沒有錢。
6)不英俊，但是好的，又有錢的男人，多數以為你愛他們是為了他們的錢。
7)英俊的男人，沒有錢，要和你交朋友，是為了你們的錢。
8)英俊的男人，又不太好，但是很正常的，多數認為你不夠漂亮。
2)當你的男朋友離家出走時，你能做些甚麼？把大門關上，永遠別讓他來。
3)要找男人，隨便找一個好了，別分年輕的或老的，他們都是一樣，他們不會成熟。
4)所有男人都是一樣，只是臉不同，方便你認出他是張三李四罷了。
5)不必把男人當傻瓜，他們本身已經是一個傻瓜。
6)猶太人的子孫在沙漠浪蕩了四十年，可想而知，甚至在《聖經》的舊時代，男人已經沒有甚麼方向感。
7)有幽默女人，不是會說笑話的女人。是聽了男人講話時，笑得出的女人。
8)當你的男人上司向你說：「你看來一點也不太忙嘛。」你儘管回答：「那是因為我每辦一件事，一辦就辦妥了。
9)如果男人問你：「你的電話幾號？」
你儘管回答：「要是我告訴你，我就要換新號碼了。」
如果男人問你：「你住在哪？」你儘管回答：「要是我告訴你，我非搬家不可！」
10)如果男人問你：「你想念我嗎？」
你儘管回答：「你不消失，我怎會想念你？」
11)如果男人要求：「把我的早餐拿到上來吃。」
你儘管回答：「那你去廚房睡覺好了。」
12)如果男人問你關於書本的事：「你最喜歡看的是哪一部（簿）？」
你儘管回答：「支票簿。」
13)如果要叫男人做一件事，最好的辦法是向他說：「這件事你做不動，你太老了。」
男人！
1)好男人，多數是醜的。
2)英俊的男人，多數很壞。
3)又英俊又好的男人，多數搞同性戀。
4)又英俊，又好，又很正常的男人，多數已經有老婆。
5)不英俊，但是好的，沒有錢。
6)不英俊，但是好的，又有錢的男人，多數以為你愛他們是為了他們的錢。
7)英俊的男人，沒有錢，要和你交朋友，是為了你們的錢。
8)英俊的男人，又不太好，但是很正常的，多數認為你不夠漂亮。
14 April 2009
幸福方程式
幸福方程式：
一顆敢夢的心＋兩倍的努力＋三倍的行動
就能成就百分之的幸福和成功
喜歡下雨，因為你不會知道我流淚....
喜歡發呆....因為你不會知道我想你....
喜歡孤單....因為你不會發現我愛你....
喜歡在你身邊....因為你是我快樂的唯一因素 ...
一顆敢夢的心＋兩倍的努力＋三倍的行動
就能成就百分之的幸福和成功
喜歡下雨，因為你不會知道我流淚....
喜歡發呆....因為你不會知道我想你....
喜歡孤單....因為你不會發現我愛你....
喜歡在你身邊....因為你是我快樂的唯一因素 ...
08 April 2009
What does love mean?
Too bad we have to become adults and forget what is important!
What Love means to a 4-8 year old ....
Slow down for three minutes to read this. It is so worth it. Touching words from the mouth of babes.
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-old,
'What does love mean?'
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined See what you think:
'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'
Rebecca- age 8
'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'
Billy - age 4
'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'
Karl - age 5
'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'
Chrissy - age 6
'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'
Terri - age 4
'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'
Danny - age 7
'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'
Emily - age 8
'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'
Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'
Noelle - age 7
'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'
Tommy - age 6
'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore.'
Cindy - age 8
'My mommy loves me more than anybody
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'
Clare - age 6
'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'
Elaine-age 5
'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'
Chris - age 7
'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.'
Mary Ann - age 4
'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'
Lauren - age 4
'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)
Karen - age 7
'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross.'
Mark - age 6
'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'
Jessica - age 8
And the final one
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,
'Nothing, I just helped him cry'
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